Submissive and Masochistic Pleasures

There is cross over between these two pleasures. In short, the submissive gains pleasure from surrendering control while the masochist is focused on pleasure from pain. I find these doesn’t tell the whole story and I don’t believe in pigeonholing people.

Discover your submission and pain threshold with me

I had fun last week with a friend, Mr Fluffy. Mr Fluffy likes to think he is a true submissive and he is with me but his real pleasures come from spanking and caning. Why does he enjoy having his bottom beaten? Because he knows it gives me pleasure. He knows how much I love to see welts from the cane covering his buttocks.

My maid is not a sissy, rather someone who wishes to play a female role

Sissies Mix It

Sissies give up control, partly for the pure escapism and also for the joy of women type clothing. They love the process of dressing up in exaggerated female garb, the make up, the feel of lingerie against their skin. They become an alter ego, they give themselves names and the majority of time they are a delight to play with.

I come across other men who wish to dress as a woman and be treated like one but they are different from sissies. A whole different head space and also a delight to play with. I had one visitor like this just after New Year who wished to dress as a maid and worship my legs while I also had another sissy maid who wished to be put to house work.

The sissy enjoyed being spanked and loved the ball gag I made her wear. She also thrilled at having her panties pulled down for the cane while I secured her ankles to a spreader bar.

After this he is going to suck cock

Degrees of Submissive and Masochistic Pleasures

Some can take a judicial caning of over one hundred strokes. Their bottoms end up deep red and it is hard to see any white flesh. Then there are others who visit who think they can take a simple spanking and they can’t. I have to stop the session as they are not attuned to the softer pain. Some think they will enjoy it and masturbate about such a session but when it comes to the hand meeting the bottom they fail. That’s OK. We’ll find something else to entertain.

Pegging is a Submissive Act

Just because you want to be pegged doesn’t mean you are gay. After all it is a dominant woman carrying out the act. Pegging is a true submission as it means all areas of your body and available to me, the Dominatrix.

Explore your kinks with me and be fulfilled

The Forced-Bi Boy

I do arrange forced-bi sessions BUT I have to get to know you so I can match you to another submissive.  A session of this sort usually involves you having to suck cock. You may even be ordered to ‘fluff’ the other sub, the use of a powerful vibrator, perhaps? While you suck on that cock I will tell you what a good boy you are. For special submissives I may even peg you. A full spit-roast is one of the most submissive acts.

Check out my BDSM Glossary for new kinks to try.

For the masochist make it clear that they have to be punished for this behaviour. A caning will ensure, where your panties come down and your nighty is pulled up. Subs are usually sore all over after such play.

Come and explore with me. You may uncover new pain, new pleasures and new roles.

Miss Stinger